Motor racing. For every marriage such as she describes, I know ot mixed marriages where the gay person was bullied and pressured Some of these gay girls go on to date and even marry marriage, manipulated and cajoled into it by the bride-to-be and often in concert with his family.
Delete Comment Are you sure you want to delete this comment? If this man could maintain sexual desire for her over time, enough to conceive two children there must have been SOME sexual desire in the relationship and that is because the man was bi-sexual with a "preference" for other men perhaps but sexual desire when being intimate with either sex.
Throughout all of this, I would have loved to have known that I was going to come out on the other side and be OK. This is what comes of our culture's bi-sexual erasure and the need to place people in clean little boxes instead of making the attempt to understand from the other person's point of view.
It turned out that straight men were the ones with more emotional and misogynistic baggage.
I knew there would be a guy there who liked me and I liked him. In one case, a bisexual man made it clear he would be seeing other men but banned her from dating anyone else and confined her to their home to take care of their children. We joke that we passed each other at the closet — I was on my way in and he was on his way out.