If intercourse tends to go quickly for him, one of the best ways to increase the likelihood of you having an orgasm is to spend more time on all the good stuff before intercourse. What works best is either me finishing him off orally or coming at the same time - but still I would like the sex to last longer.
If, after you orgasm, you assume you are orgasm too quickly going to have to keep going when you don't want to, or disappoint your partner, that's going to mess with your mind. It is estimated that the average time between a man putting his penis into his partner's vagina and ejaculation was around five-and-a-half minutes.
When masturbating, try to stop just before the point of no return, then wait. I wish I knew the secret to multiple orgasms myself.
She finds it painful to continue after she orgasms, but she often pushes through anyway, sometimes faking an orgasm later. It's with oral, but especially with penetrative sex anal is the "worst", ie. The reason for this is that most people who suffer from it are younger men who may feel self conscious and less confident about discussing it with their GP.
It's a Grand Experiment, to see how far you can go. Threads collapsed expanded unthreaded. The woman stops masturbating him, and squeezes the head of his penis for between 10 to 20 seconds.